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Smallest Problems
by HFCadmin ·
I have no problems when I tell jokes or use a personal experience from time to time in order to illustrate some argument, or to help normalize behavior, however, talk about personal sexual problems, problems with drugs and the like may blur the line between you and him. Does an experience of sexual abuse therapist for specific (ie, survived or not) role in that the therapist is more effective partner – is at issue. Its effectiveness is determined by his skills. However, some therapists who are themselves survivors, have personal experience of sexual violence and it can help them better understand what you're gone. Another such experience can interfere with and they may be less than helpful for you. Neperezhivshie therapists may be more useful due to their distance from the problem and objectivity.
Not a clear rule as to whether to have a good therapist, who himself survived. Due to the fact that sexual experiences play a big role in your story of abuse – be careful when he shows overly high interest in the 'bloody' details. For example, a description of what happened (if you feel comfortable enough to tell) – is important. Knowing that an attack on you cause an erection and orgasm, can cause a legitimate question in the context of self-flagellation or guilt you may feel a 'joy' part of the abuse. If the questions are beginning to touch the smallest details are similar or to pornography – trust your feelings and let the therapist know that you feel uncomfortable.
Tags: medicine, Psychology
