Archive for June, 2011

06.24
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Pregnancy Hardships

by HFCadmin ·

Not every can devote themselves to continuing the fight for their happiness But despite all this, there are brave souls among us who do not go in the wake of public opinion and build their lives as their heart dictates: create a family devote themselves to each other, have children and are very happy. Svetlana in my personal life, everything turned a little differently. It is known that from the outset in every woman laid maternal instinct. And while growing up, she wisely aware that due to movement disorders, it is unlikely it will be possible to experience the feeling of motherhood, the heart continued to hope for a miracle. For a long time, she is jealous of the good for all pregnant women, their rapid the future of motherhood. But in the thirty-three years and she will be lucky to experience this feeling. However, by the beginning of her joy was not shared by almost no one: neither parents nor friends, except two or three people. Doctors, immediately, with one voice, insisting on an abortion.

"But how can you go nine months with such a burden? And how to give birth at such a spastic diplegia? What if a child too sick to be born? "- They terrified her. Svetlana excited only at the last occasion. Although she knew that cerebral palsy in most cases is inherited. Decided, against all odds, to keep the baby. Time the Lord gave such happiness means to survive When her pregnancy became noticeable, Svetlana saw that many others, it causes shock.

06.14
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Body and Hostile Environment

by HFCadmin ·

Your body to adapt to the hostile environment, begins to generate a symptom is dyspnea (shortness of breath, rapid, shallow). For someone who was watching you, think you are very wrong, when in fact that dyspnea is a defense mechanism that your body generates a bombeara more oxygen, and thus combat the deficit. We continue with another example a little exaggerated, but that for can serve educational purposes: if I am so unaware that I start running like I had 20 years, I suddenly caused a strain and because he avoids the possibility of giving me a heart attack. And who before an examination has not had a fever timely …? Some time ago, I was sent to a clinic in Madrid, a 25-year-old, who later for multiple tests, both her and her husband, they do not find anything organic to justify why he did not stay pregnant. I was referred with a diagnosis of a esterilidad psicogenaa (or psychic cause.) The patient I'll call Mary. He said he came from a family with parents very close and where she was the eldest of five children with whom was particularly well. In all planned integrated brief psychotherapy, psychodiagnostic stage is crucial and in this case, I realized that her relationship with her husband was very emotional and were deeply in love. After making a thorough study, had with her first and last session of psychotherapy. I told him directly that he knew he could not have children – can not have children because you've already been a single mother To my statement was absolutely blocked, and after a few seconds, I replied annoyed – at all, I I was a virgin at marriage …